Okay, Who I think I am,
Who I know I am, because of all that happened before now,
I'm so grateful for, because I wouldn't have everything I have now, if I didn't experience and learn from my past.
So let's start with the basics;
Hi I am Melissa Palmer, I am 42 years young, 6 foot tall, 190lbs,
and I have majestic green eyes.
Originally a dark blonde from Powell River British Columbia Canada, but Live in Iowa.
I was born December 8th, 1978. I am the middle child.
I come from a dysfunctional upbringing, but who has had a pristine upbringing.
I had a Dad up till January 22nd, 2021, though he lived 2048miles from me,
we did the best we could all these years, with the tools we had to remain as close as possible, Thank goodness for internet... I mean that!
I have a mom still alive ( Thank The Universe I can not picture grieving my Dad without her), we do sincerely love each other though we bump heads often, we are getting better, getting healthier with how we are these days. I have overcome lots of trauma's, sexual abuse, physical, emotional, psychological, and verbal abuse whether it was biological family, or men I dated or people I was friends with. I have dealt with workaholics, narcissists, alcoholics, drug addicts, as in friends with or dated. I have learned from them and myself, as I picked up on some of the toxic behaviors through my lifetime, and have gone to therapy to detox from them and learned to catch myself when I used to quite often get into survival mode/default mode defensive, I ran on high octane stress levels. I have within all my years worked through a lot, I am better equipped now. I have triggers that surface from the abuse, every day I continue to face what surfaces, embrace what I am still learning, and work through this as every day I evolve. I choose to continue to grow, to learn, to love, to create, to become a better me each and every day. So this is who I am, and it is likely to change, because every day I grow. Hi to the present day, I just celebrated 9 beautiful years married, 10 years together as a whole.
Got married on Friday The 13th, July 2012! I have two sons, one is 20 and the other is 15. My Husband has two children, one boy 15 and one girl 14, so we are a family of 6. My eldest moved out a year or more ago, he bought a house for himself, Proud Mom right here!! The rest of us, tiny house it, mobile home and are quite clever about utilizing our little happy home space. We are super happy to live more simply, except we are all geeks, so that means we all play video games on the computer's each of us own.
We maybe blended but somehow it's worked out the best for all of us.
Did I mention we have pets too, four cats, had seven because I couldn't let three stray kittens die in one of our cold winters. So after re-homing them, we are sweetly back to Puma(black cat), Onyx(black cat), Ewok(black cat) and Nakotmi(beige cat). Obviously we believe black cats are good luck, and they have definitely proven that.
I am happily unconventional, I have a pretty cool personality, I can get loud when I am passionate and excited. I love astrology, crystals, sage, oracle cards, herbalism. I love my friends, my soul family, writing, getting creative in many mediums, oh and yes I love 80's, 90's, 2000's music a lot, but I do listen to a wide variety of other music too!
I meditate, my immediate family does too, we do transcendental meditation and I am ever so grateful for this technique and tool. It does certainly reduce stress and enhance harmony, love and light, which I do sincerely enjoy amplifying within our lives. Don't assume what I eat, we are not fully vegan and tofu eaters!
We are mainly rotation diet which means, we sometimes eat keto, paleo, vegan, aip, normal or order pizza & wings.
I am who I think I am,and I am big hearted, understanding to a fault at times.
I too procrastinate dishes and laundry, sometimes I don't want to cook, I just want take out, no clean up after is a real treat.I've been homeschooling my kids, for many years, secular-ly. Feel free to message me if you need more expansions.
Who I know I am, because of all that happened before now,
I'm so grateful for, because I wouldn't have everything I have now, if I didn't experience and learn from my past.
So let's start with the basics;
Hi I am Melissa Palmer, I am 42 years young, 6 foot tall, 190lbs,
and I have majestic green eyes.
Originally a dark blonde from Powell River British Columbia Canada, but Live in Iowa.
I was born December 8th, 1978. I am the middle child.
I come from a dysfunctional upbringing, but who has had a pristine upbringing.
I had a Dad up till January 22nd, 2021, though he lived 2048miles from me,
we did the best we could all these years, with the tools we had to remain as close as possible, Thank goodness for internet... I mean that!
I have a mom still alive ( Thank The Universe I can not picture grieving my Dad without her), we do sincerely love each other though we bump heads often, we are getting better, getting healthier with how we are these days. I have overcome lots of trauma's, sexual abuse, physical, emotional, psychological, and verbal abuse whether it was biological family, or men I dated or people I was friends with. I have dealt with workaholics, narcissists, alcoholics, drug addicts, as in friends with or dated. I have learned from them and myself, as I picked up on some of the toxic behaviors through my lifetime, and have gone to therapy to detox from them and learned to catch myself when I used to quite often get into survival mode/default mode defensive, I ran on high octane stress levels. I have within all my years worked through a lot, I am better equipped now. I have triggers that surface from the abuse, every day I continue to face what surfaces, embrace what I am still learning, and work through this as every day I evolve. I choose to continue to grow, to learn, to love, to create, to become a better me each and every day. So this is who I am, and it is likely to change, because every day I grow. Hi to the present day, I just celebrated 9 beautiful years married, 10 years together as a whole.
Got married on Friday The 13th, July 2012! I have two sons, one is 20 and the other is 15. My Husband has two children, one boy 15 and one girl 14, so we are a family of 6. My eldest moved out a year or more ago, he bought a house for himself, Proud Mom right here!! The rest of us, tiny house it, mobile home and are quite clever about utilizing our little happy home space. We are super happy to live more simply, except we are all geeks, so that means we all play video games on the computer's each of us own.
We maybe blended but somehow it's worked out the best for all of us.
Did I mention we have pets too, four cats, had seven because I couldn't let three stray kittens die in one of our cold winters. So after re-homing them, we are sweetly back to Puma(black cat), Onyx(black cat), Ewok(black cat) and Nakotmi(beige cat). Obviously we believe black cats are good luck, and they have definitely proven that.
I am happily unconventional, I have a pretty cool personality, I can get loud when I am passionate and excited. I love astrology, crystals, sage, oracle cards, herbalism. I love my friends, my soul family, writing, getting creative in many mediums, oh and yes I love 80's, 90's, 2000's music a lot, but I do listen to a wide variety of other music too!
I meditate, my immediate family does too, we do transcendental meditation and I am ever so grateful for this technique and tool. It does certainly reduce stress and enhance harmony, love and light, which I do sincerely enjoy amplifying within our lives. Don't assume what I eat, we are not fully vegan and tofu eaters!
We are mainly rotation diet which means, we sometimes eat keto, paleo, vegan, aip, normal or order pizza & wings.
I am who I think I am,and I am big hearted, understanding to a fault at times.
I too procrastinate dishes and laundry, sometimes I don't want to cook, I just want take out, no clean up after is a real treat.I've been homeschooling my kids, for many years, secular-ly. Feel free to message me if you need more expansions.
